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Below, Jenni Kosarin will tell you what to do before you mess up (and then—all of a sudden—huh: He’s Just Not That Into You).
Jenni will answer dating questions you’ve got for her each month. If it’s a question about a guy (or girl), get to the meat of one question and ask that. (Don’t list 5 or 6—or 28!) If it’s a love astrology question, be sure to include your birthdate (day, month, and year) as well as that of the guy (or girl) your heart pitter-patters for at the moment. The hour you were born is not necessary. And, hey—please keep it brief. (Tighty-whitey it.) (Tanks.)
Click here to send Jenni a question!
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Hi, I’m Lauren. Love your book! Actually,book(s). I have the Everything Astrology Book, too… but HE’S JUST NOT IN THE STARS is HILARIOUS - love it! But, anyway, I'm a scorpio/venus in scorpio, dating a leo, venus in leo (ugh). We seem to be made for each other, but he also tends to pull away. What can i do to get him to worship me and treat me like a queen? (I know it's hard with leo/leo. I've done my homework on astrology, but I still can't figure out the leo/leo monster. I want to make him want me so bad... he shows up at my door with a ring (typical leo/leo, and xy chromosome bearer). I think he's a little gun-shy about nuptials (and confusing to me, being a superior xx chromosome bearer). :) Can you PLEASE help me figure this guy out and how to make him bow before me. (I AM a goddess, dontcha know?) :) Again, I read a lot about astrology and your books are really helpful, but I think I need straight-on advice, tailor-made to be my tailor… Please, please: sew the threads of love tight on this relationship (just don't sew my thighs shut in the process)...I AM dating a leo, and I'm a scorpio...You know that would be apocalyptic for both of us! LOL! Thanks! Answer: Steph, Thanks for being a fan! So… I think you're a great match. The problem is: he's a Leo. He's the king. He needs a challenge, but he also needs your loyalty, sweetness, and respect... a tough balance. He also needs to know you're not going to manipulate him (which is funny because he's probably good at it). You need to be straight with him. Lay down the law, then be willing to walk away. If he knows you're stuck, he'll play you. It's as simple and vanilla as that. And it sounds like you’re playing a game with yourself right now – and trapped in your own mindspace. You have to set the rules in an honest way - as a woman, not a girl. Men need to know your limits or they’re checking out the other merchandise. You have to know what you want, tell it like it is, and be willing to move on. That he'll respect. Good luck girl! J | |||
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JEN on DATING:
“Everyone’s got baggage. But your luggage should match.”
“Luck in love is just a matter of playing your cards right when you’re dealt a bad hand.”
“Stop letting him IM you for dates! He should pick up the phone! A text message should never sweep you off your feet… Unless, of course, you trip on the keyboard while deleting it.”
“If the relationship doesn’t move forward, it’s clouds in your coffee. Move on.”
“Wear your heart on your sleeve… But make him knit the sweater first.”
“Anyone can follow a good recipe (advice like: don’t accept a date on Wednesday for Friday)… But it’ll never make you a great chef.”
Love is like math and the Lowest Common Denominator. You’re only as happy as the least happy person in a twosome.
Love is not like math in that 1+1=2. Sometimes, when one of you in a relationship is just not that into it, 1+1 still equals 1.
Buy Jenni's HE'S JUST NOT IN THE STARS here.